By Laura Yao
I had been thinking about my next step for a while, so when I received the invitation to a Passion Parlour, I jumped at the chance to attend.
I’ve been working in finance for a while, but my first love is writing and reading. Finding the object of my passion has never been an issue but finding the courage to pursue it – which is to say, a financially viable way of pursuing it – is a challenge.
The evening was structured around thought exercises and group activities, led by coach Ije Ude. One that I’m still thinking about is:
If you had five lives, what would you do with each one?
I would be a foreign correspondent. I would be a deep-sea explorer. I would be a proper mad novelist. I would solve the U.S. health care system. I would stay in finance and just really crush it. There are so many possibilities, and sad though I am that I can’t live out all of those lives, it was immensely freeing to practice getting rid of the arbitrary constraints I often place around what I can and cannot do.
The main goal of the evening was to jump-start a “passion project,” to last seven days. (I won’t say what it is, though if you want to know about it, you can reach out to me directly.) As I write this, it’s Day 5;
I have worked on building a treasure trove of inspiration (check out my Pinterest board or SoundCloud likes), reached out to friends for support and feedback, and have spent at least 15 minutes a day writing for a new blog I started or for a music blog I contribute to.
I have a list of barriers, and a concomitant list of strategies to move through them.
Finding your passion is not the work of 7 days, of course; it’s the work of a lifetime. But by breaking it down into more digestible chunks of time, suddenly a daunting goal becomes actionable.
Hearing others talk about their own passions, and hearing their positive words about mine, was inspirational.
I’ve been doing some serious thinking, and the future looks pretty bright.
Check out our upcoming Passion Parlours in San Francisco and Palo Alto HERE